Monday, July 07, 2008

Exam Essay - May '08

One Nation of Individuals

Immigrants pour into this country daily with dreams of better opportunities, desires for personal freedom, or sometimes just because they have nowhere better to go. With them they bring all of their baggage, both literal and figurative, as well as a wealth of knowledge and customs from their original homelands. To require those who enter this country to give up their unique culture would be akin to making this country as over-processed as the foods we consume. It would violate the foundation and ideals this nation was built upon and cause most people to feel unappreciated as individuals. Individuality is part of what makes us human – tradition is what binds us as a family and as a society.

Removing all form of individualism and variation from the people entering this country would eventually have a horrible effect on the entirety of this society. It would transform a once colorful and vibrant group of billions into a stale and Stepford-esque civilization. The blandness of our culture would only rival that of the cookie-cutter homes that Urban Sprawl has caused the general public to become so accepting of these days. Such an uncalled-for demand would go beyond the labeling of people with social security and other various numbers and become a complete metamorphosis into said number. We would no longer be faces with feelings but merely strings of digits with no real substance or solidity. The beliefs and traditions that most immigrants would be forced into giving up are often what help them bond with the rest society in general. Many of us deeply enjoy sharing things about ourselves and learning about others; without anything to make us different there is nothing to contribute – no need to bond. Everyone would know all there was about those around them and have no real desire to communicate. The want to build relationships with others would become null and void.

To ask that someone give up a part of their culture or where they hail from would be like stripping them of their past and themselves. It would be much the same as attempting to wipe out history. Traditions and various cultural practices normally stem from generations of beliefs which have been carried through bloodlines and crossed into families and numerous societies. Much of what is now considered as "American as apple pie" was originally a ceremony or holiday that traveled across the ocean from Europe, Africa, or some other far off region that, if faced with its introduction today, we would call foreign with a half-mocking sneer. If we, as a society, were to demand that all immigrants depart from their cultural background we would all be starting over at square one. Only those who were truly native to this land would be able to maintain their set of beliefs. (Which actually might not be such a bad idea given the wasteful tendencies of the majority of people now living in the United States and the earth-friendly practices of most Native American tribes.)

The foundation of this nation was built on the dream that one's beliefs would not necessarily be accepted by all but would at least be tolerated. The Puritans of Europe sailed the ocean blue for the right to live how they deemed as correct. The complete disregard for an individual's, or group of individuals', personal freedom is what this country prides itself on being against. Throughout the history of this country people have fought and died for their rights as a certain gender or race. Why, since we have struggled so hard for this freedom, would we deny it to those who are coming here seeking such opportunities? It seems as though it is a step backward from all the ground we have gained, an insult to those that gave their lives for our ability to be who we decide to be, and a possibly detrimental narrowing of our collective minds.
The United States is often called the melting pot of the world because of the various cultures and beliefs that can be found in this country. Without the variety of people, with their different traditions, beliefs, and perspectives, I believe this nation as a whole would suffer. We, as a people, would not be as likely to grow and expand into compassionate, tolerant, and expressive human beings, if we were to demand that anyone setting foot onto this land and into our communities was to give up who they are as individuals in order to blend in with the rest of us. Quite honestly there is no one I have met that was an exact replica of another person. Each one of us has different ideas, ideals, hopes, and opinions and we should respect that in others especially when we expect the same consideration in return.

Saturday, June 28, 2008

Wedding Bell Blog

Haven't been on here for a while - which is no shock given my usual attendance record but i have a very valid excuse this time...more or less... My long absence can be partially explained by the planning of my (& Billiam's) upcoming wedding and the development of our "wedding blog." It is, as of late, not unusual for a soon-to-be-married couple to create a wedding site online so that guests can be aware of places to stay, requested attire, food to be served, and registry information - just to name a few things among a myriad of details supplied. And i figured that since i was only taking 1 class for the summer semester & all my "extra" time was being consumed by wedding stuff (which i am apparently planning, surprising, extremely in advance) that maybe i too should build a wedding thing. So i talked to LJ (Little Jenny - so called as to not mistake her for ME [tattooed jenni]) and she. Billiam, and i decided that a wedding BLOG should be set up. That way people can comment or ask questions AND we can add pictures, drawings, and whatever else we want to make it both informative AND entertaining.

So here it is... billandjenni.blogspot.com

It is a work-in-progress but i very much like it thus far. i am just trying to figure out what else i need to add to it now.

Thursday, May 08, 2008

My computer's FINALLY back - YAY Joey!

i have been conspicuously absent for quite a while now...technically i am probably the only one who noticed (but at least SOMEONE did, right?)...because my computer died and had to be revived. For its return and to express my gratitude i would like to say a big THANK YOU to Joey and Billiam - without these two smarty-geniuses i would be much sadder and music-less.
Another YAY gets to be said for the end of the Spring '08 semester. It was a long and stressful haul but i actually made it out with most of my brain in tact and a bit of an ego boost with my John Nash-channeling...
Sadly all you get from this is the very short message you have here. i am going to give my poor little brain a break but i WILL come back soon to vent (m'sure) and practice my writing.

Thursday, February 14, 2008

On Heart Day ... “Love is not blind; it simply enables one to see things others fail to see.”

"Love is just a word until someone comes along and gives it meaning."

There are four questions of value in life... What is sacred? Of what is the spirit made? What is worth living for, and what is worth dying for? The answer to each is the same. Only love.” - Johhny Depp

“May the love hidden deep inside your heart find the love waiting in your dreams. May the laughter that you find in your tomorrow wipe away the pain you find in your yesterdays.”

Life is one fool thing after another whereas love is two fool things after each other.” - Oscar Wilde

“Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was a choice, but falling in love with you I had no control over.”

Love isn't finding a perfect person. It's seeing an imperfect person perfectly.” - Sam Keen


“Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you're just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky his is to have you.... The one who turns to his friends and says, 'that's her.'”

Monday, January 07, 2008

i want to feel sexy again.

not much to say ...again again again (eat eat eat)

i am heading back to class in a few days. Starting my horrible math class (Idiots' Math 123) at 8 am on Thursday then picking Pipp up from the airport & Saturday is Ty's bday. 30-somethingth. i currently have the beginnings of a migraine (AGAIN - had one last night too. Other side of the head though. Sinus thing maybe? i have no idea. And no medical insurance therefor no doctor visit to figure out what i can do or even what it is that is wrong with my head. i ate too much again today too. It seems to be a new habit of mine. Unhappy = eat. Bored = eat. Stressed = eat. jenni gaining weight = horrible self-esteem which = unhappy & stressed which = eat eat eat. Its a vicious cycle that will soon have wedding planning stress added to it & then school/procrastination stress added to it so we can go ahead & add 16 more "eats" into the equation & then i will be wearing a size 14 wedding dress in November. And since apparently (or as someone keeps telling me) no one is going to show up to my wedding to be happy & celebrate with me & Billiam - i have nothing to worry about with the fatness & eating....

PLEASE let the rest of this year go better than this 1st week.

please.

Saturday, December 22, 2007

Prediction (& a pretty picture!)


SO....the year is almost over & i must say - it has certainly been a busy one! i quit my horrible job, i am going back to school (finished my 1st semester with a mass of "B"s and 1 "A" - which i don't think is too bad since i haven't been to school in 10 yrs!) , and i got engaged a couple weeks ago!! All in all i'd have to say that it has been a stressful but fulfilling year for me. And my goals for this coming year are to: (a) write in this blog at least once a week, (b) plan & execute this wedding with minimal stress, (c) not procrastinate so badly with my school work/papers, (d) not be as depressed as i have been this year (or am right now for that matter.) i don't think these goals are insurmountable & i hope they are not unreasonable.

2008 will be the year of the Billiam & jenni!!!

(its about time!!)

Monday, September 03, 2007


this is me. minus 28 yrs but me all the same.
(what the hell do i think i am doing?!)